21 Days to Unlock Your Inner Beauty, Day 20: Are you a Magnet for Bad Boys?

Hello Lovely!

Do you fall for a guy that doesn’t treat you the way you deserve but still stick around? Are your friends constantly telling you that you deserve better? Do you wonder why you keep falling in this rut and you can’t get out?

Let me tell you why, sister…

We; men, women, human beings, are pulled to be around people and things that resonate for us.  Simply put, the men that you attract or go into relationships with resonate with your personal view of yourself.

You see, if you were completely in touch with how great you are then you wouldn’t allow yourself to be treated any less than wonderful.

A “bad boy” wouldn’t even make it pass a first date with you, because he wouldn’t resonate with how you know you should be treated, or how you actually see yourself.

Our view of how pretty we are, how fit we are or what we can give to a relationship shapes our perceptions of ourselves and has us UNCONSCIOUSLY think that we are not worthy of someone really great.

Our personal view of ourselves gets in the way of us being treated really wonderfully by an amazing man.  The good news is there is something you can do about that.  Are you ready?

To attract a different kind of man you first have to be willing to shift your point of view about yourself.  To do this, you must begin to immerse yourself in all of your really great, loving and wonderful attributes.

Dare time lovely…

Right now I want you to write down 5 things that you love about yourself.

Next, I want you to write down 5 things that you do better than anyone else around you.

Lastly, I want you to pick you 3 best physical features.  You should know that your mind will try to argue with you and invalidate your list.

I DARE YOU NOT TO LISTEN!

Once you have your list, tape it to your mirror in the bathroom so that you can remind yourself how wonderful you are.

When you are feeling down I DARE YOU TO LOOK AT THE LIST.

When you go out with a new man, I DARE YOU TO CHOOSE SOMEONE WHO TREATS YOU LIKE YOU’VE DESCRIBED ON THE LIST, and if he doesn’t…. I DARE YOU TO LET HIM GO.

You get to say how you are treated and what you will stand for; start by knowing how wonderful you really are.

Loving Hugs,

Tamara Leah Orras

Founder of Flirt With Me Coaching Services